‘Sexy’ is not something you push up with a bra, or tame with spandex, or lift with squats, or wear on your lips, or flatten with an iron. Sexy is in the way you express and carry yourself; it’s in a confident smile, it’s in humility, it’s in actions, it’s in being yourself. To me, it is even in kindness. We might all have a different definition for what sexy is. But I really do think that it has nothing to do with body parts and everything to do with personality. Lack of personality kills sex appeal, darling. And once that’s done, all that’s left is dead meat.