A man’s wish, a girl’s heartache

Despite her apparent slender figure and flat torso, Carla Adas always scored any guy she wanted. She had a way with guys — they thought she was fun. Back when she was a single girl, she had a consistent fan base, she now talks about. She was secure of herself and loved the attention. But after realizing how much she liked this guy, Carla dedicated all of her time and energy to him. Later she learned how to love him. She loved him very much, the same way she believed in the love he had for her.

That changed one day when, after several years in the relationship, while trying to organize her digital files, Carla came across a dozen explicit conversation threads her boyfriend was having with girls he had picked online. Sometimes while Carla was in the house. Her world crumbled. She could have probably forgiven him if they were just pictures of girls. But they weren’t. She discovered that large breasts was a fascination to him and she recalls reading all of the messages line by line. The sweet-sexy-affectionate names he called those other girls, he had never even used them with Carla.

She had dealt with all the flat-chested jokes in the book and the media trying to push big-busted women in the world’s face, reason that led her to consider breast implants one time. But, no, not Carla. She got through it. She grew to become a stronger person and accepted that implants are not a necessity. Coming from her boyfriend, the I’m-mesmerized-about-your-huge-tits comments to those unknown girls took her by surprise and broke her heart, especially when he had told her hers were perfect the way they were. To her, he secretly wished Carla’s boobs were bigger.

This is the story of a girl whose heart was broken by yet another human male who’s incapable of keeping his loyalty and accepting a girl for who she is. Big breasts will sag one day, men, and you’ll be running away from them, rather than towards them. Didn’t you know?

Marcia Capellan